Something about this transported me immediately back to my childhood in Singapore. It’s probably the combination of mandarin, tamil, and 孙悟空 (monkey god) found within the same frame. Sure enough, I learnt later on that the artist Sun Xun studied in Singapore and was thus influenced.
One of the most liberating thing you can for your adult #self is to speak up and silent the internal voice of your #abuser or perpetrator. I know speaking up can open a lot of wounds/hurts eventually you'll #heal and enjoy a #life of #wholeness . I AM NOT A #VICTIM !
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Imagine not being able to voice your feelings? Imagine the fear, the terror and the betrayal and how all of this made you feel. As a matter of fact, imagine if it still makes you feel this way. This has been happening for a while. It started when I was younger, maybe the age of 5 or 6. Now that I'm thirteen, things are completely different. I guess without thinking subconsciously I realized something was terribly wrong. He, as my father’s friend looked after me like his own; and would always tell me, "When you are grown, you're going to be special!" I'd smile; not knowing that 'grown' would come soon. Before, I was unaware of his subliminal action but now I've awakened to a dark reality. I WANTED TO TELL my story, yet I was afraid of what would happen to my family, or even me because he'd threaten me. FINALLY I realized that I MUST say something because if I don't I will continue to live in agony. Even if I don't save myself, I want every child to know NOW, not later, NEVER BE AFRAID TO TELL ON A PERPETRATOR! (Tag a friend, caption your opinion and let's discuss)
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OSIP MANDELSTAM.SILVER AGE.
Piercing and thin, sharp and gentle.Honest.His style.🌊 We live, with no sense of the country beneath,
At ten paces, our speeches cannot be perceived,
But whenever we can, we whisper in terror
Of the kremlin mountain dweller.
His fingers are thick and fat like the worms,
And heavy like weights is the force of his words,
His cockroach mustache is sneering outright,
And his boot-tops are shimmering bright.
His skinny-necked leaders surround him, nervous,
He plays with these half-men, who stand at his service.
Whistling, crying or meowing, they linger,
But he alone bellows and points his finger,
Like horseshoes, he forges decrees line by line,
Which he casts at one’s groin, forehead and spine.
Every killing for him is a berry delight,
And the chest of the Osette is wide.
Мы живём, под собою не чуя страны,
Наши речи за десять шагов не слышны,
А где хватит на полразговорца,
Там припомнят кремлёвского горца.
Его толстые пальцы, как черви, жирны,
А слова, как пудовые гири, верны,
Тараканьи смеются усища,
И сияют его голенища.
А вокруг него сброд тонкошеих вождей,
Он играет услугами полулюдей.
Кто свистит, кто мяучит, кто хнычет,
Он один лишь бабачит и тычет,
Как подкову, кует за указом указ:
Кому в пах, кому в лоб, кому в бровь, кому в глаз.
Что ни казнь у него - то малина
И широкая грудь осетина.
Sorry. The simplest word, but so many people wish not to say it. How many wars would have been stopped if someone just ate their pride and said sorry?
@theresamay how hard was it for you to say sorry after sending back black people who had killed, and worked hard for this country just to have you say, "Go back, your not welcome here", and then block them from every service their families worked and died all their lives for, to provide for a country they thought they were apart of.
You see sorry doesn't mean your weak, it means your human, and you make mistakes, but sorry means you will make sure your next action will try and make things better.
When you don't say sorry you create a dangerous situation, because there's only so many times people will allow their kindness to be taken as their weakness, and one day soon I promise you soon, the slave will be the slavemaster.
@hsbc WILL always have my custom, not because their perfect, but because they accept that we 're all human, and sorry followed by an action, shows they are willing to make the wrongs right.#speak#the#thruth#not#a#victim#everydoghasitsday#dotherightthing#human#reapwhatyousow#perfectday#loureed#gabrielle#eltonjohn#davidbowie
Narcissist ex's will paint you as a crazy, jealous and infatuated with them. They'll convince your replacement that they're a victim of your madness and abuse. They use this to bond with their new victim and gain sympathy for everything they've "been through". They'll claim you're obsessed to appear in high demand before you've been made aware that you've been replaced or that the relationship is over. They'll keep you hanging on until they're sure your replacement is hooked. They'll tell their new victim how amazing they are compared to you and how different this new relationship is compared to anything they've ever experienced, when in fact they told you and everyone before you the exact same things. They simply recycle everything because they've perfected their routine. They know what to say and do to get the results they're seeking. They'll warn your replacement about you and how unstable you are in case you ever try to reach out. They're so good at mirroring and mimicking people that you often ignore the red flags because you're so happy that you have met your soulmate, your other half. They blind you with lovebombing. You'll become dependant upon them because of how they make you feel about yourself early on. Later they'll withhold that intense love and affection to get their way or to provoke you to seek reassurance from them. It's about control. Narcissist are manipulating and controlling things from the very first moment of contact with you. They seek out vulnerable, trusting individuals. They seek empathic people who are quick to forgive and want to see the best in others because they know they'll get away with more. They replicate and repeat the same patterns again and again. Each new victim believes they're different from the others before them but the best example of someone's behavior is their past behavior. You will be left defeated and destroyed like the others before you. Narcissist will use you and take everything from you until you have nothing left and then they'll move on to someone new.
Two brothers grow up in the same house with a father who is an abusive alcoholic. One brother grows up to be a drinker and a violent man, and the other brother grows up to be an abstinent man and a model parent. Someone asks both of the brothers, "How do you think you became who you are?" And they both gave the same answer. "Given who my father was, how could I not?" Perspective. 🤷🏼♀️ Are you a victim or an overcomer? #thoughts#victim#overcomer#love#brothers#family#spring#friday#follow4follow#followforfollow#follower