I didn't want to post about spiritual fathers the other day, and I didn't. I can't escape it tonight at 12:01 a.m. O Holy Ghost move....
Soul wounds. Daddy wounds. GOD the Father?
How do you reconcile or even compare?
In this season of my life, I'm chasing destiny. A couple of days ago, I felt completely sad and teary eyed. I desperately longed for validation and acceptance in a fatherly way.
Because this level of destiny is new territory for me. I just need to know I'm going in the right direction. Keep going! I needed to know that I will overcome any warfare. I wanted to know that he was proud of me and understood the calling on my life when I may look crazy to everyone else.
GUESS WHAT GOD DID? Flipped the script...
All of a sudden the longing became a stretching of who GOD is as FATHER GOD. I love God. I fear God. But do I know Him as Father God...Abba Father?
Maybe you are reading this and you feel so stirred up. Maybe you find yourself seeking or searching for a spiritual father for guidance. Let me introduce you to THE FATHER.
I simply asked and its my prayer for you. Pray this simple prayer now:
"God show me who you are as Father. Help me to know you as Father. Remove any blocks that I have. Stretch my capacity to receive you as Father God."
In Jesus Name, Amen
God has more for you. It all starts with a relationship with Him. God is not concerned with rituals but real relationship with you...whom He LOVES so much. Receive the love of Father God on tonight. Let Him do His work in you through His Son, Jesus. Amen
Do you know Jesus? If not and you want to know the greatest love of all, lift your hands and repeat:
"Jesus I am a sinner. I believe you died on the cross and rose again to cleanse me of my sins. Forgive me Jesus. Make me new. I receive you as my Lord and Savior now and forever. In Jesus name, Amen
Congratulations! Your life is about to be Holy Ghost lit! If you said this prayer tonight, write me at email@example.com. I want to support you and pray for you!
🔥I feel the GLORY of GOD on this post. There are some things shifting right now. Hallelujah!
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When you’re giving a reading and autocorrect sends profanity to your recipient 🤦🏻♀️ but it ends up being that much more validating for them 😬💜😂 The way spirit conveys personality so perfectly never ceases to amaze me. #validation#empatheticbadass#starseed
It's unfortunate that i seek validation from those I love when I don’t feel good within my self, it’s true for me. I do.
When they don’t give me the attention I want, I feel even more low. True story.
But when I’m working on myself and I’m doing the things that make me feel good like; eating right, looking after my body and mind, I don’t need to be told by anyone else how well I’m doing because I feel it. I should do it more cause there is nothing better than that feeling let me tell you!
Don’t rely on others, no matter how important they are in your life, to make you feel good, you should be self sufficient in creating your own happiness and anything extra from those you love is just the cherry ontop! .
Understanding "The Crisis Cycle": Your child loses a foot race against friends. Your child becomes angry because they lost the race. Your child begins to curse and scream at their friends because they lost the race. You step in a try to talk to them or give a consequence.
The goal is to avoid The Crisis Cycle, whenever possible. If you are there at the initial event, it is a great idea to provide safety and support immediately. Being available to listen to your child at that time can allow them the opportunity to process what they are feeling inside. This is the best time for using reflective statements and active listening. Next, provide your child with opportunities to do a coping skill to help with their "big feelings", or just to help them to be regulated and calm again.
If you notice at the end of your child's crisis situations, they seem to respond well to particular coping skills or other appropriate interventions, try using those same coping skills and interventions at the beginning of the crisis. Over time, your child can learn to self regulate and may ask you for a coping skill or support, before they engage in other unsafe behaviors due to their feelings.
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My name is T, I look like the pictured Sim, and I am a devout Sims 4 nerd. My absolute favorite thing to do in the game is creating Sim clones of real people, and I realized recently that being designed in Create-A-Sim is strangely validating and fascinating, much like getting a portrait done. Therefore, because I love making Sims and I would love to have a Sim made of me, I thought I’d create an account for it just for fun! You can DM me a picture of yourself and describe your ~~~aesthetic~~~ or clothing style for me a little, and I’ll make you a Quality Sim™️ using my plethora of custom content. This is all just for shits and giggles, and we’re all gonna have a dank old time making Sims and loving life. 👌🏻
When people don't see, validate or praise and acknowledge your hard work or good deeds. It's ok- it doesn't mean you shouldn't keep doing your BEST. It's who you are- a person of excellence and strength outside of praise, approval and validation. You are enough sunshine. Your time will come- people will see how amazing you are keep being faithful. ☀️#BiancaEnchanted
This story got very positive feedback from a lot of people so thought I would take the main clip and put it here for more to see.
The moral of the story is, ITS ALL RELATIVE
If you only compare yourself to other people you will never be satisfied! -
You could be the 10th strongest person in the whole world! If all 10 are in the same room, you are now the weakest person in the room
Don’t be a hater, don be a troll, your only putting your weakness on display for the whole world to see and showing everybody what a little bitch you are
And for those who lack self esteem and compare themselves to others, STOP!!
The ONLY thing that matters in this game is self development! Levelling up! Have you made progress? Are you better than you used to be? That’s all that matters.
I will tell you what I tell my daughter every day! ‘Self belief over validation’
Never seek somebody else’s validation, never compare yourself to anybody else’s standards, just focus on yourself
You must first learn to love what you have now before you can achieve more, if you don’t, then you never will, no matter how much you achieve
Self belief over validation -
Fuck validation -
Fuck approval -
Be your own Hero!
“Aw you’ll find someone”
I have to address this because it’s a weekly thing at the moment and I’ll let you into a little secret.. you don’t have to be in a relationship.
I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Women aren’t attractive unless they’re validated by a partner, Men aren’t men unless their shagging someone and people can’t be ‘all that’ if they don’t have someone next to them.
Im gonna call bullshit on this real quick because a relationship won’t always make you happy, don’t get me wrong I’m not hating here and of course love is beautiful and should be shared! It’s pretty to be in love, it’s magical but it’s also wonderful to go and do new things with friends and no hidden addenda.
The problem is, we’ve made everything about “The one” but maybe that person is just you; loving yourself, having fun and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our ‘other half’s’ we should be piecing ourselves together.
Maybe I’m not unfinished, maybe I am the one who makes myself better.
Please stop using things such as relationship status to try and devaluate a person because I’m pretty fucking awesome as I am ✔️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I sit back and watch in genuine amusement people #competing with each other, tearing each other down, wasting #moments of their #now on trivial things, emotional judgements and reactions to pictures and posts ... Nah Luvs .. stop this mess!
I compete with myself 🤷🏾♀️ #Intelligence , #skills and #talents is enough for self #validation
Luvs No one .. can ever ever ever validate you..your crafts, your passion, your dreams, your accomplishments... 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Look in the mirror or your selfie cameras 🤣 and remember that #reflection is your only competition in #Life (no filter lol)
Replace screen time with green time (in nature). Or give yourself a much-deserved break from the 'drama' of screen time. Your time is precious and gratitude along with devoted time to family, friends, and valuable connections. Or renew your dedication to activity, a good book, relaxing, and connecting with your Devine
What is colour proportion, really? It's merely a beginning of what's yet to be explored. Not only will it generate your idea with colours, it's going to let you have a visual combination of its probable use in art and design....#havefun and live it like an #artist colouring your own world 🌎 - never mind #validation . Only sometimes, the applause 👏🏼 happens later .
Night terrors are no joke. We have been experiencing night terrors for the last 5 years with my 9 year old son. This is not a restless sleepless night or a classic nightmare. He wakes in panic and terror, he screams, jumps, runs, yells, acts paranoid, with teeth chattering. He says, "momma I'm scared, momma momma momma." He is not awake though surely looks it. Sometimes I don't know who is more terrified, him or me. He remembers none of it because he's not present with it.Researchers say, ride it out, don't wake them, keep the light low. Here's what I've been trying which seems more successful. Remember to be mindful of your own breath and body. Their hearts and bodies will feel your calm and your storm.
Rhythm through tapping alternately on his arms or chest depending where he is in the moment. This helps him regulate in the "bottom" part of his brain.
Movement whether I get him to move or ask him to look at me or take a deep breath. We are moving up through his brain working to get him back online.
Identify his emotion verbally and validate, " I know this is scary and you are safe, I'm here with you." I often speak of myself in third person in these situations so he hears mom, momma or mommy and therefore has a connection to make.
At this point he's typically in his bed and I continue these steps as needed sometimes eliminating number two if he seems to be regulated and settling.
You can do this during non night terror times too. You can do this yourself when emotions are heigtened and add last step, solution. Shoot me a question if interested in learning more!
If you're anything like me, then you have grown up hearing about the importance of forgiveness- especially from a spiritual point of view. The trouble?
1) You see forgiveness as condoning the behaviour of the person who wronged you, which goes against your strong sense of justice.
2) You find it hard to let go of old wounds.
3) Unforgiveness has become your security blanket (i.e. you feel that if you don't forgive and build walls you are protecting yourself from being hurt again). 4) You know it's good to forgive in theory but you simple don't know HOW to practically carry it out.
If you found yourself nodding along to any (or all) of those points, definitely listen to the video below.
In it I share a snippet of the epic conversation that I had with, my friend, Dr. Gladys Ato @dr.gladys.ato (of Drgladysato.com- clinical psychologist, leadership and personal growth expert, speaker and author of “The Good Goodbye: How to Navigate Change and Loss in Life, Love and Work”). The full interview is also posted in the comments so you can hear all her insights on:
What a good goodbye is and how to have one
How to forgive someone who hurt you
The importance of self-love, grace, compassion and forgiveness
And much more!
Let me know your biggest take away after watching as well xx