Here is today’s #ThursdaysTheory and its fluorescence. We all love the bright colours but why do things that are transparent glow under UV light? It’s because they fluorescence which means they absorb a higher energy photon, loose some energy by vibrating and then emit a photon of lower energy. This lower energy photon is often is the visible part of the electromagnetic spectrum.
If you’ve given something your best shot and the door won’t open, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it means it’s not your door and that the universe has much better plans for you. With this in mind, “rejection” becomes a cause for excitement rather than disappointment🔮✨
You’re the only one with your experiences and your mindset, so if other people don’t understand your decisions — *not* your problem. You owe people kindness, not explanations. It’s how you take your power back✨
Here’s an easy way to transform your inner dialogue: Imagine you’re surrounded by the people in your life who love you to the bone without any judgment of where you are or where you’ve been. If you’re having trouble imagining who those people are for you, then use figures like Jesus Christ, The Dalai Lama, and/or Mother Theresa. Now, imagine that group is in charge of how you speak to yourself throughout the day and give yourself a break✨😚💕
This is a tough one. People who do not love themselves without conditions can only love with conditions. That is to say, they can only love so long as their emotional expectations are being met by others. If you cease to meet their needs for whatever reason, there is a negative response. It is in those moments when the conditions of their love are revealed, i.e. “I only love you if you put my needs before your own, otherwise I act like a jerk and give you a hard time hoping to guilt you into doing what I want you to do.” This is why the purest, most healing love comes from those who love themselves unconditionally. When you love yourself without conditions, you can love everyone else without them, too 😚💕
Sometimes we’re so afraid to be hurt or disappointed that we don’t allow ourselves the excitement of imagining all of the ways a thing could turn out better than great. But, blocking all of the positive outcomes is a lot like standing in our own way. We have to give the best case scenario space to flourish in our thoughts. Get comfortable with the happy ending, so to speak 🤗
Consider the piano. A key strikes a corresponding string to produce a sound. If the piano is out of alignment, the key does not hit the string, and the intended sound is not produced.
Similarly, when our hearts and actions are not aligned, our lives are not the way we’d like them to be. Sync up with yourself to realign ▫️
▪️How to spot a good influence: Imagine you took over their life exactly as they are living it — how good does their outlook feel? How fulfilling are their relationships? Would you be happy living their life? If the answer is yes, then they are likely a positive influence on you 😚▫️