Earlier this year I told myself I was going to be selfish.
Selfish with who I invested my time, energy and love with.
The reason I’m single is because I’m choosing to spend more time with Julienne. I’m working on me right now, so I really don’t have time for anyone else.
I invested so much into my brand, my business that most of my time I’m working.
I’m single because I knew if I didn’t have a very understanding partner I wouldn’t be able to be in a relationship. In fact, he would cheat on me because I’m so busy trying to be successful I wouldn’t give a man the attention that he deserve.
The reason I’m single is because I was once that girl who accepted so much from a guy just to say I was in a relationship. Faked my happiness, because I had a point to prove to a bunch of “unhappy “ other individuals.
The reason I’m single because I see so many failed marriages, and how people who are in relationships act more single, than those who are really single.
I actually want to get married one day, and for the right reason. I actually want to be madly in love with my partner, not to prove a point or to put on a show.
The reason I’m single is because I actually do want something real. I don’t believe all men are dogs, and I actually want someone who loves and respect me in my face, and behind my back.
I don’t want to act like I’m happy just to “prove” that Im in a relationship. I don’t want to settle, I don’t want to fake it!
Social media has made it okay “to put on from the gram.” Social media took the real out of relationship.
The reason I’m single is because I’m really waiting on God. In the past I went looking for it, and it wasn’t what God had for me. This time I’m doing something different... this time I’m waiting on God 🙏🏾
#Single , and Not ready to mingle!