It’s not just an access to guns problem, it’s a how we raise our boys problem. Everyone, so easily, says every shooting is an AR-15, and it’s true. However, they’re also all male. That’s not coincidence. We need to raise our boys better. To cope better. To cry better. To live life better. To be good humans, not entitled shitheads. To treat women with equity and also know women are to be treated with respect. Those two things don’t need to be mutually exclusive. Toxic masculinity is literally killing people. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." -Margaret Atwood
Had fun talking with this squad about issues affecting men and boys on #TALKUPRADIO this morning.
Learned about how young men think. Very very interesting.
We spoke about the real emotional, societal, financial struggles of men and boys and there was near consensus in the room for these issues.
We also looked at the contentious contemporary issues such as #catcalling#menaretrash#fragilemasculinity & #toxicmasculinity .
And we did it all with love, respect and the occasional roast.
Hard conversations but good conversations! #TalkUpYout
I try to buy a piece of art every time I sell one 💕 Here’s a mug I absolutely adore by the amazing @opielyf with one of my dick vases, before being bubble-wrapped to the 9s and sent to its new home. #fragilemasculinity#ceramics#australianceramics
I agree with @xmarks_thescott TOXIC MASCULINITY IS THE ROOT OF MANY OF OUR DEEPEST SOCIAL ISSUES. This is like a chain reaction to many of the oppressive, segregating and discriminatory social standards that we fight day by day. This is just TOXIC, and the saddest part its that most people can’t even see the problem because it has been embedded in our minds that this is “NORMAL”
This shit makes me cringe 😣#toxicmasculinity#fragilemasculinity
“Boys will be boys”
What does a boy look like? 👦🏻,
How should a boy act? 👨🏻,
And what happens when this boy is “different”? 🧔🏻
Check out @ghobberz ‘s new post titled “Why Are Most Of Your Friends Girls?” and let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Link in bio ☝🏼
You know. I feel like I need to post this. I really don’t understand where this comes from and why strange men try to harass me on social media every day. It is filthy and pathetic. This person has made 3 accounts on Snapchat to harass me, if it’s not him then boy these creatures are triplets. According to this male specie who got rejected by me at least 10 times, and I’d like to point out again HE IS A STRANGER, tells me that I’m sexually frustrated and mentally ill because I don’t want to be associated with him 😂#fragilemasculinity#disgusting#unfortunate#sad#pathetic#gross
If u can’t handle me screaming at a man outside of a bar at 2 am, then u don’t deserve me drunk modeling 💁♀️ #fragilemasculinity#didihurtyourfeelings#great s/o to @radioheadlyrics01 for capturing these action shots (and also screaming at said man)
Love that rainbow sheen! Our holographic stickers are some of my faves. Are there any other HOYFC sticker designs you’d like to see printed in black and holo? 😍 Or are you more of a vinyl sticker kind of person?