For me sex, which I have not yet discovered, is like a trip, or so I imagine. I think that doing it with a person you love has to be a trip, a trip full of emotions, to other worlds, to know another dimension of your loved one. It is a connection, a more powerful way of transmitting love, linked to our senses, to our nature. It has to be like a rebirth, like a purification of the soul through the caresses of the person you love. It is a stronger symbol of the company, of a "you are not alone, I am with you". Thinking that you like the body of the other person, is not bad, because if you know how to use that desire, that will increase love and make you take better care of that person you love so much.
I want to be tolerant with sex without love, each one is free to enjoy their sexuality as well as they consider. But remember that people are not objects, they are not toilet paper, they have feelings, and their bodies are for life, just as you would not like to be mistreated in sex, do not do it, and take care of the other person while you are with her, during that moment, even if you do not see her again, do not be violent. Just imagine as if they put something violently inside, unprotected, fearing for your life if there is an illness, you touch someone's hands, you do not know what they are going to do, that person is violent, has no delicacy, is crude It hits you, it does not give you permission to decide, it does things you do not like, it does not smile at you, it does not thank you, it does not invite you to a coffee later, it does not talk to you, it just takes you, it empties inside you like If you were a batter and it goes away without more, as if you were a thing, as if I had already used you. If you want to do that with a person, treat it well, because it feels like you. Just imagine your pain as if it were yours, and keep in mind that all the pain you cause in the end you will end up paying, they will hate you and when you really need help, there will not be anyone who wants to help you, but if you are good and do favors, people good really want to help you.
“A Bigger Splash”
David Hockney, 1967
📍 Curiosità: “A Bigger Splash”, film del 2015 e diretto da Luca Guadagnino fu liberamente ispirato al lungometraggio “La piscina” diretto nel 1969 da Jacques Deray e all'omonimo dipinto di David Hockney.
Last week we were testing the observational skills of the little ones at Burchetts Green School. They’re only 4 and 5 years old and they did such a good job of drawing these toy animals. They had different instructions to follow ie draw with your non writing hand, spend 30 seconds drawing it, draw it with your eyes closed etc they were all really pleased with their masterpieces 😁