I feel the most rejuvenated when I am completely alone.
It's how I recharge.
It's how I show up for myself
It's how I set my boundaries
It's how I am able to be so patient and loving to my kid
It's how I am able to heal others
For so long I used to think there was something wrong with me because I would need so much time alone. After work or even when I was in school, I looked forward to the silence, darkness of the afternoon and coziness of my bedroom. I couldnt always handle answering phones or having visitors because it would disrupt this urge I had to be away from noise.
But I realized through my spiritual journey... it is how I connect to myself and let go of my day. It's how my cells heal, how my heart shines and how my spiritual body connects to the universe
Can I be real with you for a second? This time last year was rough. Divorce took its toll on me WAY more than I thought...I thought I was dealing with it well until one day I woke up and kind of had a “WTF” moment...How did I get here? So over the last year I’ve really focused on ME and what makes me happy, fulfilled and whole.
What I’ve found is that society often sheds a negative light around being single or alone...kind of like “poor you” you haven’t found your soulmate shit. If I’m being TOTALLY honest here, there was a part of me that KNEW I shouldn’t get married before I got married but I didn’t address that because it’s what you are “supposed to do” (f*cked up, I know!) So if no one has told you, you don’t have to be married or with someone to be happy and being ALONE does not have to make you sad or lonely! Having the confidence to NOT SETTLE is such a strong, amazing quality to have. The courage to strive for your best sometimes takes focus and a level of self awareness and discovery you can only do in those moments where you are alone.
I’m not saying “go get a divorce to find yourself” 😂 or some crazy shit. But I do think it’s super important for you to know that you ARE OK being alone. You ARE strong enough to be alone. ❤️ Lonely is a choice. Alone is an opportunity.
(I needed to rewrite my message before this. I think this one is better). Once we are finally in that space where we can heal, think, prioritize and build a lifestyle we’re used to having but will be more fulfilling because we now have laser focus, not feeling guilty that we chose to walk away from corporate or big company employment so we can learn something new that takes so much more time instead of working for paycheck. Being alone makes us focus on OURSELVES. To build a life that is exactly how we wanted them in the first place. I’m grateful now that I am one with myself. I can build the life I’ve always longed for, you know, your own blood, sweat and tears. If a relationship comes along, I know it will be the right one, where my partner will not be threatened of one’s ambitions, instead supportive. Will not be jealous and resentful of the abundance one already has. My new partner will be secure, mindful, as hungry as I am, as emotionally available and amazing. the love I equally give and deserve. feelgoodspreadlove #relationshipgoals#healthymind#changeyourlife#whatittakes#reinventyourself#courage#newlife#lifestyle#aloneandhappy#millionairemindset#wealth#hustlehard#justdoit#livelovelaugh
Esos pequeños momentos, los más sencillos, esos que disfrutas al máximo y solo te queda agradecer a Dios por lo que te da!!! Cerré los ojos, respiré y al abrirlos noté: todo el restaurante para mi solita!! Genial!!! #metime#allbymyself#joy#aloneandhappy#letitbe#relax