(i’m happier than i look i promise) my idontmind shirt has came in and it makes me really happy to think about idontmind as how i have met my best friend, he may be 1000 miles away but it feels like we’re closer than that, i’ve had a couple friends in person that i thought were my best friends but they’re the type of friends that judge so when i met Cody through idontmind i’ve never felt happier and he’s made me realize that the world isn’t so bad and there’s people out there that really do care about you. Thank God, Chris, and idontmind that i’ve met the most amazing and nicest people on this account. i don’t mind saying that i’ve had some problems in my life and i’ve done really bad things but today i am definitely loving life because of IDONTMIND💘 #idontmind
Signs that spring is here:
- my bedtime wardrobe has gone from thick socks, two pairs of pants, a flannel, and a heated blanket to bare feet and a T-shirt
- I have a terrifically splotchy sunburn from sitting out on my deck for a whopping 20 minutes
- everyone keeps saying it
Sempre ouvi as pessoas dizerem para sermos nós mesmos, e eu me perguntava:
Como eu poderia ser outra pessoa?
Mas com o passar do tempo eu descobri que o mais difícil na vida é conseguirmos sermos nós mesmos.
É fácil agir da forma que as pessoas gostam,
difícil é fazer as pessoas gostarem da maneira que agimos. Então percebi também que se quero vencer na vida, e mais ainda:
Se quero ser feliz, tenho que encontrar a parte de mim esquecida, o meu eu que grita para sair. Pois se você sente um vazio dentro de você, um espaço que não consegue ser preenchido, pode ter certeza que esse espaço só pode ser preenchido com uma coisa, ou uma simples pessoa... Você!
E não adianta procurar saber quando foi que você deixou de ser você mesmo pois não vai achar.... Mas quer um conselho?
Comece ser você novamente a partir de hoje.
E o primeiro passo??
É admitir.... -Grazi Oliver
And it's all the same, I was wrong, you were right
And when I was born all the angels cried
I spend every night in a waking dream
While the devil sings to me
Somebody set me free
Oh my god what have I done?
Who's this person I've become?
And it's all the same and it makes no sense
And I walk this line and I'm on the fence
Between right and wrong, it's the same old thing
Round and around I go
Somebody set me free
When I was a kid my looks were very important- that is, whether or not I looked like who I lived with at the time. Being adopted and living with both blood and non blood relatives made me always compare myself to those around me. Did I have the same shade of hair, eyes, skin tone, body shape? Did I “look” like I belonged to whatever family I was in? As I get older it’s not so important. I’m a pretty good mix I think of everybody. If that’s something that plagues you, keep this in mind: of course you don’t look like everyone else. You look like you, and every one of your family members looks like themselves. #adoption#adoptedkidsgrowup#familyties#howdoilook
It’s ok to hurt. Some days and weeks hurt more than others. #keepgoing#anxiety#depression#mentalillness#notashamed#idontmind#Repost @twloha with @get_repost
“I want to ask: Are you out there too? How does your heart feel today? Is it broken? If it is, can I help you hold the pieces? Even if I can’t help you put them together, can I just hold them with you? Can I just be there and let you know that it’s okay to have days that really hurt? That you need to let yourself feel it for a little while? Maybe write a short story about it? Because I’m a big believer in all of that. I’m a big believer in letting yourself feel what you need to feel. And I’m a big believer in not having to do it alone. Because I think that’s what makes this whole world livable.“ – Lindsay Mailloux, “Eighty Degrees” • Read the blog at the link in our profile.
... love, warmth, strenght, energy.
I'm a very spontaneous person. I write and post what is actually on my mind. Doesn't matter if positiv or negativ. Because the feeling to have to write is omnipresent. So I choose a picture or quote and star writing.
For me it's a way to take the pressure of myself. I don't care if you are interested in my life or my stories. Because it's me. I'm the important part. And so are you.
Today I got a plenty of messages (Because of my recent posts) from a special friend @the_official_william, he was a bit rare the last days, because of work and family. You know ... But today he took the time to cheer me up. And it worked. My heart is going to burst of Love, warmth and energy.
He's a very special human to me. And even if I don't know him personally, I think of him like a brother, an important family member. If he's not posting, commenting or liking, I get worried, because he is a part of my life.
So today he surprised me with love and heartwarming words. And so I decided to share all the love and energy I have with you. All of us deserve to be treated like a special human being. So please feel hugged and give some love to your important person.
Have you ever thought to yourself, I feel unimportant, ugly, and irrelevant to myself and society. I’ll be the first to tell you that I have plenty of times. I still do it from time to time and I don’t mind admitting that. However, I want to be the voice of inspiration to tell you otherwise. YOU are IMPORTANT! YOU are BEAUTIFUL! YOU are UNIQUE and completely RELEVANT! 😊. Life on Earth is so much more beautiful because if you are reading this, you exist! You get to be a part of this amazingly complex thing called LIFE! Own it! Put your mind to stuff and every negative thought that tells you that you CANT... push that bully back and fight to conquer your dreams. Stop living in your comfort zone. Comfort only hinders you from exploring into the vast horizon. Step out and tell yourself, I AM AMAZING! That I am totally worth loving not only to others but to myself as well. I’m so excited and inspired because of all the wonderful people and support from #idontmind has give to me. Yes I hurt, I fall, and yes.. I am currently in my comfort zone, however, that is going to change soon. I want to be the one who overcomes the bully who says you can’t... that you will never amount to anything. So together, everyone who’s reading this, LETS ALL step off and embark on the vast horizon and explore just what we are capable of achieving! Let’s make ourselves better today! As always, I’m here for any of you! ▪️❤️▪️#idontmind today’s post is inspired by @20ghostwriter01 You are amazing and the world deserves to know it! 💗
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I also struggled with depression and honestly I dealt with my depression alone always afraid to talk about how I feel and think that my problem don't matter, but after long hard battle with depression alone I managed to defeat my depression but fighting it alone also lead me to almost giving up and I know fighting depression is hard as it can be and that's why I don't mind lending my ears to those who are stuggling not just with depression but all those who are stuggling with anything, I am always happy to listen and help as long as I can. You are not alone in this battle, there are people who are willing to help you get through it. Have faith and give yourself some credit. Be kind to yourself. Your mind matters. Talk about it.
Mental Health is as important as Physical Health, and if you're reading this please do know that I am willing and always be happy to listen. I don't mind if you're a friend or a stranger, I'm always one chat/dm away. Your mind matters. Talk about it.
... it's okay to be not okay!!!
In times like these, when you're are feeling alone and hypersensitive. It's not that easy to ask for help. But it's okay, if you try, but don't push yourself to hard. Be proud that you've tried. And the next time, you be able to get one more step aheard.
At the moment reading my favourite books, listening to music is my anchor.
I have noticed that some important people, have distanced themselves from me. No matter if internet or real life. A pity. For me, because I was thinking a friendship with like-minded is great. But I've realized I'm not that hyperactive fan of supergirl, LoT, Caity Lotz and whoever is playing a character in a tvshow.
PLEASE, don't get me wrong. I love those shows too, I also love the actors, actresses, but I have to deal with my mental illness, a job in a leading position, friends, and social media. And between all the issues, tears, hard work, and being a living creature, I also have the attitude to be a supporter for a good cause, for a friend, for a like-minded.
But you know, it's like in Love ... if it's one-sided it's hopeless. You're giving up. Like a flower which needs water and sun. Without the sunlight she's not able to grow. Without water she's drying up. One way or the other she is going to .... you know ☢☢☢☢☢